By Lou Cameron
If you have ever had your love break up you know how painful it is. And if you thought back after the relationship finished, you saw all the signs that you did not recognize before. If you can remember those signs and keep them in mind, they will help you prevent a break up in the future. And they can also help you get back together after a split.

One sure sign of approaching love break up is the lack of physical contact. This does not just mean sex. If your partner all of a sudden stops having an interest in sex, that's a good sign that a break-up is coming. But the normal flow and rhythm of a relationship has times when there's plenty relationship has times when there's not much. This is natural.

A love break up is perhaps on the horizon though, if your other half stops holding your hand for no clear reason. Or he or she stops stops holding your shoulder at the flicks or in public when he usually she always did it before. Any sudden changes like not touching you much or in public when your partner was always very affectionate before could signal issues.

If it goes beyond not touching you much outside of the person actually becoming uncomfortable at your touch, then you definitely need to have a conversation with your partner about what's going on. Don't just presume that because your better half flinched away from your touch that there's about to be a love break up, though . Many things may cause somebody to not need to be touched at any given moment.

A person could have been thinking about something else and been surprised or startled by the touch. He might think that your touch signals that it's time to have sex, if you are not very affectionate except when you want to be intimate. And maybe your other half isn't in the mood for something else and been stunned or frightened by moving away from your touch. That doesn't mean you are for a love break up.

Your partner might simply not feel good. Each change in a person's behavior does not signal an approaching love break up or even anything wrong with the relationship. You've got to watch them closely for some time to determine if some behavior is an occasional thing, something brought on only during certain times, or if it is an enduring part of the person's make up.

Catching your better half in lies, even what seem to be tiny and safe ones, could be suggestive of problems, too. Of course, if a lie is small and harmless, why tell it in the first place? Where there's one tiny lie, bigger and more damaging lies can grow. Don't become convinced it's a love break up right away though. People lie about many things that aren't bad, like surprise parties and reunions. Your partner might be trying to keep a harmless and fun secret like that, instead of scheming about a love break up.
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