By Kim Sanchez
Do you know that 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce? This is a sad fact, but you have to realize that there is still a way to prevent divorce when your marriage is on the rocks.

Humans are just not perfect. We screw up a lot of times in our lives. There is just no manual for life or for a good marriage. These things take a lot of experience and fiddling if you want to really be good at it. But is there really a way for you to stop divorce and get your wife back?

The virtue of humility is very important if you want to be forgiven. Humility is just as important a virtue as patience. You really have to bow down your head and swallow your pride, accept that you have made a huge mistake. How can you get forgiveness if you do not ask for it? So, a sincere and honest apology is a must. There is just no way around it.

An apology consists of two parts. First, you say you are sorry. Second, you need to tell her that you will not make the same mistake again. "I'm really sorry for what I did. I will make it up to you and I will never do it again." That is the basic apology. Of course, you need to follow up on your promise not to repeat the same mistakes again.

When you are speaking with your wife again, hear her out. Listen to what she has to say. Let her talk about how she feels. Never argue with her at this point and don't depend yourself. Do not belittle her feelings by telling her that what you did is no big deal. It is apparently a big deal that can cost you your marriage.

When you have recurring problems with anger management, drugs, or alcohol, I suggest that you seek professional help before you apologize to her. Through your actions, you can show your wife that you sincerely want to change and mend your ways.
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